Urgent advice to CNN: ASK the kids for the solutions to youth violence (and other problems)
by Nan Henderson
CNN is providing on-going reporting about the very important issue of youth violence. For example, on October 27, the network spent extensive airtime covering an alleged gang rape of a high school girl at Richmond (CA) homecoming dance. Pundits, including a clinical psychologist, interviewed by CNN about the event offer no solutions, just hand-wringing and horror about “kids today.”
My advice (based on my 20 years of studying youth resiliency): Ask students for solutions! This means, don’t forget that vast majority of kids in Richmond, CA, and in Chicago (CNN weekly covers the youth violence there), and elsewhere are not perpetrating crimes, and in many cases—which go pitifully unreported by the media—are helping others, improving the planet, and leading positive lives.
There are kids in the Richmond high school and around the Chicago violence who will talk. Being closest to the ground, so to speak, young people have insight and wisdom and potential solutions beyond what most adults ever give them credit for!
True, due to fear, guilt, and other crucial issues, those directly involved in the acts of violence may not come forward with “information about the crime.” That IS a sad situation. But overall, youth want to help solve this (and other problems) and only need the invitation and support of adults who recognize how valuable they are and who will truly listen to what they have to say.
I know this firsthand. For years, when called into schools with difficult student behavioral issues, including during my work in “Persistently Dangerous Schools” in New York City Schools, I have demanded that the children and youth in those schools be involved in the solutions.
At one New York City School with the “PD” label, elementary students on the school student council had wonderful ideas: “It’s really just a small minority of kids causing the problems,” the students said. “Hire more counselors for these students…Give them some ‘time out’ time…teach them anger management skills…[AND] Please let us be part of the solution.”
Students can be trained as student mediators, which is exactly what happened in the years I worked in Albuquerque, New Mexico, known for it’s over 100 “inter-generational” gangs. Students as mediators, with conflict mediation taught school-wide diffused gang issues in Middle Schools there. And when the kids went to high schools where the mediation program was not in place, they demanded, “Where are the mediators?”
There are solutions to these problems, and often hidden causes. The students that surround this (small minority) of troubled youth know both. We, as adults, need to JUST ASK THEM.